Causes, Result, and Antidote For Anger>>>>>>Psyche therapy

A Professor was teaching about Proverbs 15:1. He asked his students,
'why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at
each other when they are upset?' The students thought for a while. One
said, "because we lose our calm." "But why shout when the other person
is just next to you?" Asked the professor. "Isn't it possible to speak
to him or her with a soft voice?
Why do you shout at a person when you are angry?" The students gave
some answers but none satisfied the Professor. Finally he explained,
'when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their
hearts psychologically . To cover the distance, they must shout to be
able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will
shout to hear each other through that great distance. Then the
Professor asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They
don't shout at each other but talk softly. Why? Because their hearts
are psychologically close. The distance between them is very close.
The Professor continued, 'When they love each other even more, what
happens? They don't speak, only whisper and they even get closer to
each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they
only look at each other and that's all.....So next time you shout on a
loved one, know that you are creating distance between your heart and
that person's heart. Proverbs 15:1 says a gentle answer turns away
wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
PLS SHARE with as many friends as you can. You may be healing a hot
tempered person unaware today...
Enjoy every moment.
"Life is easy. Don't you think so?

Posted by Chrisray

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